By Veronica Welles, Quora. Condensed. To understand why, we must first see that abuse is merely abuse. Abuse hurts, but so do many other things in life, like falling off the bicycle, getting rejected by our love interest, or failure at things. What makes the covert narcissist’s abuse so much more abusive than any other … Continue reading No other type harms as severely as the covert narcissist.
By Shahida Arabi, Bestselling Author “The only truly effective method for dealing with a sociopath you have identified is to disallow him or her from your life altogether. Sociopaths live completely outside of the social contract, and therefore to include them in relationships or other social arrangements is perilous.” – Dr. Martha Stout, The Sociopath Next Door … Continue reading 7 Things Covert Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Psychopaths Do Differently
"In a normal person, revealing your hurt triggers their compassion. In a narcissist, doing so triggers their bloodlust, causing them to output greater levels of sadism and aggression." By Veronica Welles, Quora Narcissists don’t set out to destroy people. It’s usually an accident when someone gets their lives ruined or commits suicide due to narcissistic … Continue reading Why do narcissists want to destroy people?
By Veronica Welles, Quora. Feeling content with yourself, being alright with yourself, is ultimately rooted in morality. Correct morality allows us to feel clean and peaceful inside. Incorrect morality causes us to feel filthy and violent inside. It is impossible to reach a state of lasting peace and contentment while struggling with the filth and … Continue reading How do people with narcissistic personality disorder destroy their partners’ self esteem?
Written by Veronica Welles, Quora. As long as the narcissist can hide or stay hidden, their full toxicness will not be deployed. They stay hidden as long as you are still blind to their true nature. But if they become aware that you know their full nature (and they may not see themselves as a … Continue reading What happens when a narcissist is unmasked and his secrets are revealed?
By Courtney Pierce, Quora. You are an unconditional lover. This is an astounding quality and asset. Until it becomes a liability. This is the very real fact of most assets and positive qualities, they can become liabilities when we forget to include ourselves in the experience. We can forget to include ourselves in our own visions and expressions of … Continue reading Why you keep attracting narcissists.
They hurt you, they feel shame, they hate feeling shame so they'll hurt you more for making them feel shame for having hurt you... And down the rabbit hole you go. Written by, Veronica Welles, Quora. If a narcissist feels shame for their actions, why do they repeat their mistakes and continue to hurt others? … Continue reading The narcissist’s sick and destructive dance with shame.
By: HealingJourney, Psychopath Free. Pathological lying is the opposite of normal. “Deceit is the linchpin of conscienceless behavior.” ~Martha Stout, The Sociopath Next Door It is irrelevant that researchers have discovered evidence that everyone lies in one way or another. Not only are most lies damaging, psychopathic lies are beyond the scope of what most people … Continue reading If a narcissist’s lips are moving, they’re lying.
By Veronica Welles, posted to Quora. Narcissists generate a monthly load of toxic pus in the form of uncontrollable negative feelings. This load keeps building up and building up over the course of the month until they reach a stage akin to having to go to the toilet. They need to relieve themselves of it. … Continue reading What do narcissists crave?
Post written by: Veronica Welles, Quora In my experience, there is only one sign I always look for to discern a covert narcissist. The other red flags will pick up narcissists, but they pick up the overts or malignants. But there is one thing, yes one thing, that is simultaneously so subtle that it makes … Continue reading The #1 sign of a covert narcissist.