Warning signs of being gaslighted by a narcissist.

Post by Veronica Welles, Quora. Contradictions their words contradict yours their version of truth contradicts yours their memory of the event contradicts yours (altering history) their words contradict their actions their words contradict their words their actions contradict their actions their understanding contradicts their knowledge you are always wrong, they are always right they are … Continue reading Warning signs of being gaslighted by a narcissist.

Why do narcissists manipulate?

Posted to Quora: Bassel Chibani. The art of manipulation is not about making people do what you want them to do but rather getting them to want to do what you want them to do. The Art of War by Sun Tzu Our Human nature to believe whom we love. Manipulation is a long game, narcissists do … Continue reading Why do narcissists manipulate?

The poor misunderstood narcissist just wants sympathy.

Does anyone care how hard it is to live with NPD or do you really just see us as animals because you function from a point of lack of understanding? Posted by Stephen Underwood, Quora. This is exactly the type of question a narcissist would ask. Totally self-serving and all about them. Lack of understanding? … Continue reading The poor misunderstood narcissist just wants sympathy.

Why do narcissists discard their partners?

From a post by Brian Bryant, Quora. Narcissists discard for many reasons, but generally, in the end, it is to maintain an illusory control over the target.  A narcissist knows they are pathological liars, and purposefully rebellious against the rules (including people’s boundaries, and sense of self). Therefore, abandonment & betrayal are frequently at the … Continue reading Why do narcissists discard their partners?

Nothing is real. Nothing. Not you. Not them.

Narcissists follow scripts. By Veronica Welles, posted to Quora. You are not who you truly are, you are just a character in their script (either an extra or a supporting role). They are not who they truly are, they are just a character in their own script (always the lead character). The whole world is … Continue reading Nothing is real. Nothing. Not you. Not them.

No love. No emotions. Just nothing.

Written by: After Narcissistic Abuse - There is Light, Life & Love Narcissists switch their fake emotions, empathy, love, care, respect, friendship, off and on in like a light switch. BUT in reality they are perpetually in that 'off' position because they are nothing but an empty shell devoid of life! I could write out … Continue reading No love. No emotions. Just nothing.

Narcissists do enlightenment better than anyone else.

Narcissists do enlightenment better than anyone else, they are very convincing, right up until you realise just how empty their version of spiritual awakening is. But that’s your problem, not theirs… you’re just unenlightened, a disgusting human filled with human flaws. They’re above and beyond such things. Bye bye. And they float off into nothingness. … Continue reading Narcissists do enlightenment better than anyone else.

A narcissist’s laugh — a not obvious clue.

A narcissist does not genuinely laugh — and their laughs can be very weird! My NPD ex wore the quiet, shy, angelic mask and it always jarring to hear him laugh. It was a loud, barking percussive sound that would echo through the depths of the offices and halls. Everyone would comment on his laugh, … Continue reading A narcissist’s laugh — a not obvious clue.

Lie Spotting.

Is Chris Watts a convincing liar? Posted August 18, 2018 / NICKVDL Have a look at the seven minute interview Chris Watts gave while his pregnant wife and two daughters were still missing. Make a mental note of any inappropriate behaviour, micro-expressions, mannerisms, phrases or words that raise red flags. Ready? Go! https://shakedowntitle.com/2018/08/18/lie-spotting-test-your-true-crime-lie-detector-nous-with-the-chris-watts-case/

Narcissist parents demonize their own children.

It took me decades to accept the truth about my mother. And it took a very patient therapist to finally say straight out "Your mother was not a good person!". Such was my denial, she told me she used my situation as an example in her class teaching other would-be psychologists. My mother was always … Continue reading Narcissist parents demonize their own children.